This is going to be my ever first personal blog of mine…I always wanted to write, but never really had an idea about blogging it…
Em’ just gonna bring in random… after all, life is all just being random…nothing goes as planned :P
So, No flow…No preparation …No chart…No grammars…*Not much sensitive: P
I am a girl who is very common, shabby always, being contingent sometimes, but not goes by the plan. Interested in psychology, but not even tried or faced a base of it.
Now, What should I start of with… Life ?? Success r failure ?? Family?? Love?? Friends ??
Ahh !!! may be brain & Heart…
I say, Human mind is the deepest crave of all. Heart is the most twisted black box of human souls where no one can dig or reveal it underneath.
Thoughts and ideas are generated from brain (mind) and feelings, love, desire, dreams, blah blah… are generated from heart (All just fleets around for a short term, useless, no profit).
Neither you nor me…can study it!!!
We all humans know what is reality wherein, it is a Brain mechanism that helps us to analyse…, but here comes our hero of the play who makes the situation more crooked. Friends, everyone would have definitely crossed over some kind of situation…wherein, we do know what is happening real, where does the situation lies and what has to be done, but still.. we will never do that remedy in instant. Though we knew it, our heart stops us… saying, to go to the extreme opposite end in thread.
There, it becomes more complicated and protracted. Why does this even happen?? May be, all because of our desire, needs, likings, hopes, dream, the itch, fond or I would say, an urge to somehow make it happen even if it does not going to turn out in real.
When we talk about Love, here… we fellow people only assume and have customized it between Men & Women. I comprehend…, love between a friend to friend, amma to a child, brother to sister, husband to wife and in all forms comes under determined love. Thinking of which, we are not going to spend or share our life with these. All these are fate who are supposed to show their love each other by fact. (As they are tightly bonded)
Guess what…??? A one such feeling (from damn heart) where it drives us crazy and makes us think to think about that ONE person, having an expectation to live the rest of the whole life with him…assuming that he would be the right fit/ life partner/ soul mate/ life…is a little different.
When do we realize these differences..?? I will tell you when…!
If you are a person who doesn't adjust to anyone, a bit selfish kind, not listening or obeying words from your loved ones, not thinking much about others, an adamant nature, not a caring type and only projecting yourself on the first end…
but then without realizing yourself, changing all your trademark style incarnated all these long years only for that one person… shows the difference.
Your parents, friends and all your loved ones have cared about and would have struggled many long years to mould you…but this one pity thing could mould you enough in just 2 weeks of time. Funny, isn’t it???
There might be some situations… when you…,yourself would suspect that why do you do all such things. Though, you don’t listen to others, you go with your own thoughts and ideas…I bet, still you look for that one person to give his suggestions & ideas, to take care of your stuffs, to guide, to be the first person to share with, to protect, to take a long walk at night, to fight, to be there aside, to make fun of you always, to talk about family & friends, to talk stories and movies, to talk about stars and Moon, to know your likes & dislikes even before you are aware of it, to understand you even more better than anyone, to talk about dream home in a full greenery farm, to turn on your bright mode when you feel down, to call him when you feel heartbroken, to talk about trips & adventures, to talk about beer, puffs and drugs even, to talk about bikes and drives, a stimuli to give his number as your emergency contact in your workplace when you are not even into relationship and in whole Blah…blah… :P
Spontaneously, you will think of good to happen to that person when you are not even contented..., wish them happiness to come along when you can hardly smile…, say your prayers to long live when you feel hard inside...
Wherein that’s not at all your character to do, though. Pity you.
The above things might imply for a few who would have experienced in real, I have just bulleted an imaginary part…..moreover life is all a combination of R+im, right?
It’s better to stand with reality rather believing the imaginary things.
I personally say, these all changes and the way you feel towards should happen so naturally without any pre planning or any expectation within to happen in a very dramatic way either. We shouldn’t force to make it happen; it should come in flow without even realising ourselves.
Still…Yes!!! You have changed for a reason, where you have not played this part ever before…So, feel gratified that it is worth your life.
It’s all psychological facts, Human heart expects all these and do so… for a person who we love the most.
So, if you really have felt it for real towards a person who is not even bonded or fated to you for the rest of your life…Don’t try to hold them, instead treasure it…After all, life is all just once…You have got the unrivalled feel towards a person for your lifetime. Cherish!!!
In case, If you have did all these just to lower your burden or to be pampered always…or a confusion or if you find yourself fluctuating from a person to person
Then, this is not a situation to be conerned about. Even if we contend our self in this situation, Think!!! How could there be a substitute or even a second (third) chance when you have felt so (if) REAL before.
Definitely No, right?? So…forget it, then!!!
All these has to be decided wisely that comes from our brain…So far cool decision, very clear, very broad minded…good to lead…, but we usually don’t go with that. Coz, heart is the major player who doesn’t allow us to lead so...
How we usually think and conclude is…..
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What’s the use??? Does it even going to happen?? The change happened for that one person, do they really going to exist or share the rest of the days in your life??
No..!!! A Damn Big NO…Doesn’t it sounds like Bullshit…nah nah...To me, it sounds like Bull.
Then why waste time.
If it is a negative result… Guys…, Definitely you will not let this go… (Human tendency).
The change you have shown for a reason now would turn out making you more unkind, hard and may be evil outside and grieving underneath inside.
Man, you would be pathetic by then.
(This happens when we are driven by heart…Only heart leads such wreck to happen)
In life, we all will cross through many phases. In certain period busting our time thinking about such shits which is not at all useful, thinking about someone not knowing the real meaning of it…, which will not even happen, which is more hurtful sometimes. Why to do so?? Better, Don’t do it !
Dude and Dudette’s …get your senses…We have got many more important things in life. This isn’t an end here. We have a long way to go. We have our life to live which is only once. No retake, No rewind, No second chance. Then why waste time…? why do it ? Why feel heartbroken?
Note* These craps cannot be stopped, but just prioritize…
You know…, Priorities always changes: P
Though it happens… just analyse and have a clear vision what comes for reality, make sure you won’t get hurt. (Besides, why should you? :P)
Because, once you start prioritizing the needs and the ideas you have….there will be other hell tons of things which comes in first which would be very essential to life…
Definitely, by then you will get to know this is a mere thing happened to you and you won’t bother much.
People to survive, we only need 3 factors…. Food, sleep and Money. To get these first 2 factors, find out one good way to earn money… We call it us “survival of the fittest” not more complicating it further.
If you still find it hard to overcome…. Just bat your head saying…, to understand the real place.
I have read a sentence somewhere saying “Maturity is when we understand that no relationship is more important than your sleep”. It’s true, isn’t it? 100 % it is.
This implies for all forms of relationships you have with people around...Nothing exist or last long forever till your life ends. In your whole life span, only you will exist @ all time..; only you will be there for you throughout your whole life.
In life, happiness, failures, pleasure, joy, dump case, success, sadness and even worse, revenge, backstabbed, love, misery, amity, crush, friendship, even more are all a mixture. Just we should understand the reality and act accordingly. Life is all once. Live your life not wasting your time.
Many times, we find it difficult to choose, take decisions and act according to the situation knowing it’s important. So do I. Looking into the live examples, incidents happening around…, I just wanna mould myself even more better wherein that would be productive for my life too. This is just a small step taken by me to go with the writing interest of mine.
I really wanted to write since long, but only now I have taken some initiative. I should thank for the internal force driven within myself to start off : P
Thank You so much!!!
Choose to live… Life is all once… Keep fighting!!!
