Hold tight !

Me ! A Sapien, a wanderer still alienating ‘me’ that limits all ways to keep my thoughts and actions balanced.

On my usual routine af, wishing for the other world, my own universe, here is my seasonal trance for 2o19.

There is a reason to every which decision you make and for every instance that you come across, you have come a long way. Every bit of your ‘thoughts’ or ‘ideas’ or ‘a wish’ and ‘whatnot’ planted into your mind is for a reason. This birth of yours itself  have already proved enough, you are here for a higher purpose. 

Everyone has got one reason to deal with their own miserable or stupendous purpose in this merry mythical monstrous world.

Life is invincible and that what makes you feel alive. If you knew it before, you wouldn’t value the power of the future.

For the situations you know that it's just made up and unreal, but you can’t help it.

For the times, When you want to speak your heart out, but you ought to mouth shut.

For that one instance, when you miss that person who you know is your soul, you are just left to thrash within not to think of the happiness & togetherness even in dreams. Invincible !

Thinking of, negativity always hits first and why exactly my mind is triggered to center it out of all in the first place. Its no unlike any other human brain mechanism, is which I talk and believe all the time.

Nothing like ours..,Our self-own story could define any lives. 

In all possible ways you could think of, it's always a good choice to keep you ready, get prepared, to stand still and sense the potential hardships or plausible heartbreaking moment that would fall in place. For latter good. 

If it’s something that you know you should do, just do it. Don’t think to give up until you hit it hard with your utmost best tries, till you find a way out, till that time you feel you've got enough to drop off. Easy, fight for it af.

Know the real you, ‘THE YOU’ to take up challenges, be it any form, Good or Evil. Make sure you don’t take side. 

Keep fighting !

The Ugly Truth !

All a wonder for having us to witness all the human evolution happened then and now.

For the advanced technologies discovered  and mended to make our life so easier than ever,

for the fact that the planet is put through with all possible satellites, antennas filling the space up there,

for actually been enabled knowing the gender parity and also inculcating the label of being rich & poor,

for being a part of democratic land which is said, yet ruled by a sceptical ruling party that goes hand in hand for every quinary,

for the blessings that each individuals has got to follow the chauvinistic systems, some knowing its brainless,

which is really definite for binding up these stereotypes to ourselves.

Mere the living creature with complete non- sensical ideologies & customs, still, the wide remarkable material for all the major disasters to occur - Mentally, physically & geographically is human.

With all these ignored still,  life couldn't be easier. It is mandate that you've to put on an act, no matter how your situations are falling apart. That's the ugly truth.

Life is not bogus. For once, at least once - Why not live your days for you, for actually what you need?
what is stopping ? Its forevermore better to run after"who you are", rather, to fit in the clause "what you are". Everyone has got their own purpose for life. Finding it & to know-what might be the hardest part. It could be a mundane thing, could be a desire on solitary creation that you ever wanted to do, might be for a person you love the most. 

Know by heart, once you realize, don't give a damn on anything else that's stopping you. Don't give a shit about what human kind would think of. Kick the ones who judges the way you are. Give everyone the go-by, to the society, to the groups that guff's on you.

Having one life, don't have a plan to find what's in other side of the coin. Because, you never know, if there is something at all. So, set your stage, your own purpose., in the way you like to take out. Life would be all worth it !

Remember, purpose of life. Keep fighting !

FEAR !

We, humans have always been driven with a force, an immensity of pressure to substand in life. We ain’t ever told of the possible combinations of emotions that would one day blow off the perfect set of cards in your story. Among which, FEAR is the reasonable form of entity that drives us to withhold ourselves.

Some might like an artistic life, a few like adventure, & some like absolute stillness, dreamy and dramatic, yet, the one that brings the resistible you - real you - sustainable you - survival you is YOUR FEAR ! I always have imagined, how would it be without even being afraid of something or anything at all. Maybe, numb. Because, the intense sense in fear-ness will be a definite essence of spur.

Rationally speaking of which, the man who lives through this, will sustain stronger - longer. My urge is,

It’s fine to be in places that scare the hell out of you.

It’s fine to be afraid of the fact that one day you could get laid off.

It’s fine to see the most disturbing faces often.

It’s fine to be afraid of your life commitments & goals.

It’s fine to carry the shades of your dark memories, too.  

Be in places which scare you the most, the ones which hurt you the most, medium that makes you feel grounded. This exactly makes you the one with more resistance and helps you get a vision with what you want to do with your actual life.

The fear on your commitments, will get you identify the strongest part of yours.

The fear in your profession, will take you to touch milestones, eventually, one day you would decently settle up with all the essential needs that you have always wanted.

The fear in living your life, would help forecasting the most possible happening scenarios that might turn to be positive to you.

The destiny that your life is destined to be is irreversible, already. All that you can have control over is yourself - your goals - your courage - your perception to live with it, the rest all flatter to deceive. Be high enough to chase and face it. Any of it! Still possible to live with most possible hardships, yet, become a better person. Keep fighting !

Halfway Underneath !!!

This is going to be my ever first personal blog of mine…I always wanted to write, but never really had an idea about blogging it…

Em’ just gonna bring in random… after all, life is all just being random…nothing goes as planned :P

So, No flow…No preparation …No chart…No grammars…*Not much sensitive: P

I am a girl who is very common, shabby always, being contingent sometimes, but not goes by the plan. Interested in psychology, but not even tried or faced a base of it.

Now, What should I start of with… Life ?? Success r failure ?? Family?? Love?? Friends ??

Ahh !!! may be brain & Heart…

I say, Human mind is the deepest crave of all. Heart is the most twisted black box of human souls where no one can dig or reveal it underneath.

Thoughts and ideas are generated from brain (mind) and feelings, love, desire, dreams, blah blah… are generated from heart (All just fleets around for a short term, useless, no profit).

Neither you nor me…can study it!!!

We all humans know what is reality wherein, it is a Brain mechanism that helps us to analyse…, but here comes our hero of the play who makes the situation more crooked. Friends, everyone would have definitely crossed over some kind of situation…wherein, we do know what is happening real, where does the situation lies and what has to be done, but still.. we will never do that remedy in instant. Though we knew it, our heart stops us… saying, to go to the extreme opposite end in thread.

There, it becomes more complicated and protracted. Why does this even happen?? May be, all because of our desire, needs, likings, hopes, dream, the itch, fond or I would say, an urge to somehow make it happen even if it does not going to turn out in real.

When we talk about Love, here… we fellow people only assume and have customized it between Men & Women. I comprehend…, love between a friend to friend, amma to a child, brother to sister, husband to wife and in all forms comes under determined love. Thinking of which, we are not going to spend or share our life with these. All these are fate who are supposed to show their love each other by fact. (As they are tightly bonded)

Guess what…???  A one such feeling (from damn heart) where it drives us crazy and makes us think to think about that ONE person, having an expectation to live the rest of the whole life with him…assuming that he would be the right fit/ life partner/ soul mate/ life…is a little different.

When do we realize these differences..?? I will tell you when…!

If you are a person who doesn't adjust to anyone, a bit selfish kind, not listening or obeying words from your loved ones, not thinking much about others, an adamant nature, not a caring type and only projecting yourself on the first end…

but then without realizing yourself, changing all your trademark style incarnated all these long years only for that one person… shows the difference.

Your parents, friends and all your loved ones have cared about and would have struggled many long years to mould you…but  this one pity thing could mould you enough in just 2 weeks of time. Funny, isn’t it???

There might be some situations… when you…,yourself would suspect that why do you do all such things. Though, you don’t listen to others, you go with your own thoughts and ideas…I bet, still you look for that one person to give his suggestions & ideas, to take care of your stuffs, to guide, to be the first person to share with, to protect, to take a long walk at night, to fight, to be there aside, to make fun of you always, to talk about family & friends, to talk stories and movies, to talk about stars and Moon, to know your likes & dislikes even before you are aware of it, to understand you even more better than anyone, to talk about dream home in a full greenery farm, to turn on your bright mode when you feel down, to call him when you feel heartbroken, to talk about trips & adventures, to talk about beer, puffs and drugs even, to talk about bikes and drives, a stimuli to give his number as your emergency contact in your workplace when you are not even into relationship and in whole Blah…blah… :P

Spontaneously, you will think of good to happen to that person when you are not even contented..., wish them happiness  to come along when you can hardly smile…, say your prayers to long live when you feel hard inside...

Wherein that’s not at all your character to do, though. Pity you.

The above things might imply for a few who would have experienced in real, I have just bulleted an imaginary part…..moreover life is all a combination of R+im, right?

It’s better to stand with reality rather believing the imaginary things.

I personally say, these all changes and the way you feel towards should happen so naturally without any pre planning or any expectation within to happen in a very dramatic way either. We shouldn’t force to make it happen; it should come in flow without even realising ourselves.

Still…Yes!!! You have changed for a reason, where you have not played this part ever before…So, feel gratified that it is worth your life.

It’s all psychological facts, Human heart expects all these and do so… for a person who we love the most.

So, if you really have felt it for real towards a person who is not even bonded or fated to you for the rest of your life…Don’t try to hold them, instead treasure it…After all, life is all just once…You have got the unrivalled feel towards a person for your lifetime. Cherish!!!

In case, If you have did all these just to lower your burden or to be pampered always…or a confusion or if you find yourself fluctuating from a person to person

Then, this is not a situation to be conerned about. Even if we contend our self in this situation, Think!!! How could there be a substitute or even a second (third) chance when you have felt so (if) REAL before.

Definitely No, right?? So…forget it, then!!!

All these has to be decided wisely that comes from our brain…So far cool decision, very clear, very broad minded…good to lead…, but we usually don’t go with that. Coz, heart is the major player who doesn’t allow us to lead so...

How we usually think and conclude is…..

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What’s the use??? Does it even going to happen??  The change happened for that one person, do they really going to exist or share the rest of the days in your life??

No..!!! A Damn Big NO…Doesn’t it sounds like Bullshit…nah nah...To me, it sounds like Bull.

Then why waste time.

If it is a negative result… Guys…, Definitely you will not let this go… (Human tendency).

The change you have shown for a reason now would turn out making you more unkind, hard and may be evil outside and grieving underneath inside.

Man, you would be pathetic by then.

(This happens when we are driven by heart…Only heart leads such wreck to happen)

In life, we all will cross through many phases. In certain period busting our time thinking about such shits which is not at all useful, thinking about someone not knowing the real meaning of it…, which will not even happen, which is more hurtful sometimes. Why to do so?? Better, Don’t do it !

Dude and Dudette’s …get your senses…We have got many more important things in life. This isn’t an end here. We have a long way to go. We have our life to live which is only once. No retake, No rewind, No second chance. Then why waste time…? why do it ? Why feel heartbroken?

Note*  These craps cannot be stopped, but just prioritize…

You know…, Priorities always changes: P

Though it happens… just analyse and have a clear vision what comes for reality, make sure you won’t get hurt. (Besides, why should you? :P)

Because, once you start prioritizing the needs and the ideas you have….there will be other hell tons of things which comes in first which would be very essential to life…

Definitely, by then you will get to know this is a mere thing happened to you and you won’t bother much.

People to survive, we only need 3 factors…. Food, sleep and Money. To get these first 2 factors, find out one good way to earn money… We call it us “survival of the fittest” not more complicating it further.

If you still find it hard to overcome…. Just bat your head saying…, to understand the real place.

I have read a sentence somewhere saying “Maturity is when we understand that no relationship is more important than your sleep”. It’s true, isn’t it? 100 % it is.

This implies for all forms of relationships you have with people around...Nothing exist or last long forever till your life ends. In your whole life span, only you will exist @ all time..; only you will be there for you throughout your whole life.

In life, happiness, failures, pleasure, joy, dump case, success, sadness and even worse, revenge, backstabbed, love, misery, amity, crush, friendship, even more are all a mixture. Just we should understand the reality and act accordingly.  Life is all once. Live your life not wasting your time.

Many times, we find it difficult to choose, take decisions and act according to the situation knowing it’s important. So do I. Looking into the live examples, incidents happening around…, I just wanna mould myself even more better wherein that would be productive for my life too. This is just a small step taken by me to go with the writing interest of mine.

I really wanted to write since long, but only now I have taken some initiative. I should thank for the internal force driven within myself to start off : P

Thank You so much!!!

Choose to live… Life is all once… Keep fighting!!!